Robert
Stephens, known simply to his thoroughly working class family as
‘Our Bob’, was born in Bristol on the 14th of July 1931.
His father, Reuben, was a shipyard labourer, and his mother, Gladys, was a factory worker (working for Fry’s Chocolate).
In 1949, Robert won a free two-year scholarship to Bradford Civic Theatre School, which was run by Esme Church.
Esme was very insistent on the fact that Robert needed to develop
appropriate thespian diction, if he were to play Shakespearian classics
with any conviction, and so the process of removing his regional accent
began. 
After a lot of mediocre work with the Caryl Jenner Mobile Theatre and
Morecambe Repertory - avoiding National Service due to flat feet - he
joined a touring production of ‘Not a Clue’ in 1953, where he met actress
Tarn Bassett, and fell head-over-hills in love.
Robert joined the Manchester Library Theatre in 1954 as a character
juvenile, where he met the 21-year-old Jeremy Brett. Robert had
never met anyone so elegant, so charming, so ‘Etonian’ as Jeremy
in his life - he was fascinated. Robert, a man that could not have had
a more different upbringing to his own, equally intrigued Jeremy.
Jeremy and Robert were to balance up the classes between them,
becoming life long friends.
"Jeremy snuggled up to me and to Tarn. We became inseparable
best friends" (Page 22: Knight Errant)
The two actors did not share a very glamorous existence together; they
rented a chilly and noisy two bedroomed flat over the last letter A, in the
Astoria's neon sign. Fights would break out downstairs in the ballroom
every weekend, and their rooms would be dark blue with damp and fug
in the winter. Despite all this, both actors were having the time of their
lives, and could not have been happier. 
Maggie Smith was to become Robert's third wife, they were to have two children together: Toby Stephens and Chris Larkin.
It
was during his turbulent marriage to Maggie Smith - who he claimed -
became an intolerable Drynamil addict (after filming The Prime of
Miss Jean Brodie in 1969), that Robert began turning to the bottle for
solace, and became a full-blown alcoholic.
In
1969, troubled Robert, landed the lead role in The Private Life of
Sherlock Holmes. However, the movie was not to be his golden ticket to
on-screen success. Director, Billy Wilder, an extreme
perfectionist, became quite literary obsessed with making the Holmes
spoof utterly prefect, making Robert time putting down an object at the
exact syllable in a word. During the gruelling twenty-nine weeks of
production, Wilder’s demands on Robert became increasingly severe and
ludicrous. No scene was ever wrapped up until every word was exact, no
matter how tired and frustrated Robert appeared to be, Wilder only
stopped when he got exactly what he wanted. The strain of filming,
combined with his increasingly troubled marriage, culminated in
Robert’s first nervous breakdown. 
By
1971, Robert was drinking more heavily than ever. He decided to tell
Maggie Smith that he had been having affairs with other women, which
only made her treatment of him worse. Shortly after this, on the
persuasion of Brian Kanarek, Robert booked himself into a private
nursing home:
"The
only really constant friends I had through all this were Christopher
Downes, whom Maggie liked very much and Jeremy Brett, whom Maggie did
not like at all. They really were my life-savers. Everything seemed to
be falling apart. Larry had
convinced himself - quite wrongly - that Maggie and I had set up that
Los Angeles production of Design for Living on National Theatre
notepaper. Our days were numbered there, and I had offended my mentor,
my greatest friend and hero. My private life was a shambles. I was rock
bottom.
Jeremy
took me to the nursing home, where they wouldn't accept me at first
because I was drunk; I was so desperate I had found a bottle of vodka
in Jeremy's flat where I had stayed the night before, and swallowed
most of it. But eventually they took me in and gave me a shot of
sedatives. Two nights later I skipped out and went to find Jeremy at
his theatre - he was appearing in John Mortimer’s A Voyage Round My
Father at the Haymarket. I was very unhappy, and in a terrible state.
But I went back into the nursing home until I could stand it no longer.
At
this point Jeremy took me home and looked after me. People often assume
that we must have been lovers, but our friendship, forged in those
early days in Manchester went far deeper than that. I’m afraid that the
idea of jumping into bed with a hairy-arsed sailor, let alone Jeremy
Brett, who is an immensely attractive man, fills me with horror" (Page 117 and 118: Knight Errant)
Once out of the nursing home the marital squabbling continued without respite until Binkie Beaumont suggested
the unhappy couple did the Noel Coward play, Private Lives, together in
1972. Their joint performance was their final attempt to salvage
something of their marriage. The attempt was not to prove successful:
"Binkie
Beaumont, increasingly distressed by our bickering, rang Jeremy up to
ask if he could do anything to help, and I moved out of Queen’s Elm
Square and went to live with Jeremy in Notting Hill for about six
months. Again I was desperately unhappy and there’s no doubt that the
booze was within me and I’d lost my way. But the booze was only a
painkiller. My career was at the crossroads, my marriage had failed and
there seemed to be nowhere for me to go" (Page 120: Knight Errant)
Maggie Smith and Robert Stephens divorce was finalised in April 1975. Maggie Smith’s marriage to Beverley Cross was
soon to follow, after which, she moved to Canada with her new husband,
taking Robert’s two sons with her (shutting Robert out of their lives
in the process). Robert was to find himself in a mental hospital
shortly afterwards, suffering from a breakdrown.
In
1975, Robert Stephens played Sherlock Holmes again. This time for a
stage production revival of the William Gillette - Conan Doyle play, at
the BroadHurst in New York. Even though Robert’s career was in a
peculiar state of unresolved tension, his personal life was very much
on the up by this time. He had met actress Patricia Quinn in
early 1975 after Chris Downes had begged Robert to watch the Rocky
Horror Show with him. Robert and Patricia met backstage and hit
it off instantly; and a lasting bond of love, understanding and
friendship was formed.
In the 1990’s despite ill-health, caused by years of heavy drinking and the devoplment of diabetes, Robert returned to the stage with huge success. He was awarded the Laurence Olivier Theatre Award in
1993 for Best Actor for his performance as Sir John Falstaff in Henry
IV, for the Royal Shakespeare Company. And he was much praised for his
chilling performance as King Lear.
Before his death in 1995 Robert was Knighted and married Patricia Quinn (pictured above). He also found time to release his memiors: Knight Errant - Memoirs of a Vagabond Actor.
Sir
Robert might have been physically ill - having liver, as well as,
kidney problems - at the end of his life, but he was a jolly rouge to the very end: a
man who was proud to say he had lived life to the full, and had few
regets. Robert died in his sleep in hospital on the 12th
of November 1995 due to complications during surgery.
Profile text © Copyright Rebecca Wilde 2011.
